Remembering those of another Generation, Vietnam and a M-65 Field Jacket

I am giving notice, the story below: I did not write, but am reposting. It was in a public post on FaceBook, and I copied it. I do not own the rights to the story. The Introduction, I did pen, and is how I remember. If you know the person who wrote, please let me know, so proper credit can be acknowledged.

Today is Thanksgiving, and although this is more fitting for Veteran’s Day, I think today, is perfect. I give thanks and am grateful for all those who have served this country, both past and present in the armed forces while protecting our freedom’s. I believe in light of the recent events that happened yesterday in DC by the cold-blooded killing of 2 National Guards, this is appropriate to honor them, and their service. Both had just been sworn in 24 hours prior to 26 Nov 2025. Both from West Virginia.

I was fixin’ to close out on Facebook, and had to check something. In doing so, this post by annymous, popped in my feed. I read this, most of y’all that are of are Boomer generation, 1947- 1964 will identify. Many were there themselves, or have older siblings, aunts or uncles that are Boomers whom can also identify. So, far all the Millenials and Z’ers that are completely in the dark about this history, not all, but many, this generation, the Boomers, was influenced by the Viet Nam War.

Many of my “boomer friends” had Daddy’s that served in that war, and most are now gone. I remember asking one friend, where their daddy was, and was told, he isn’t here he is in VietNam. I only knew about Viet Nam from the tv, and not much else. They always seemed sad, when they would tell me.

One of my first memories, as a 5 year old came from the television, and nightly news being broadcast, me not knowing anything, but remember thinking when I heard those Huey’s flying and men getting out of helicopter’s that sound meant danger and death.

I recall even as a kid at Elementary school in 5th grade hearing some of my peers talk about the brother go drafted; or my brother is coming home from ‘Nam. Or later, as a young woman in my early 20’s, hearing colleagues I worked with talk about their husbands who had something no one heard of “PTSD” and it was hard from them to hold down a job. Most of what I am describing resonates with most of you. And now in my 60s, Veteran’s of that War, or the Nurses that served as well, as their medical needs were addressed, or many times do work of the Surgeon, because there were not enough surgeon’s, and many in nursing homes. This story caught my eye, and want to share it. It is moving. God Bless these men and women who fought so these people we see now, can attack. They died for that, and they don’t even know, much less care…

The following I copied from a group, that the author is not listed, only known as “Annymous” and feel the story is in need to be retold. The below, again, I did not pen.

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I stopped breathing at exactly 10:15 AM inside a Goodwill on the south side of town.

I was only there because my daughter, Sarah, is moving me into “Sunrise Meadows” next week. That’s the polite name for the place old people go when their kids run out of patience and spare bedrooms. Sarah was three aisles over, aggressively sorting through my life, tossing things into donation bins while talking loudly into her AirPods about square footage and “decluttering.”

I let her do it. When you are eighty-two and your knees click like a rusty gate, you learn that fighting takes too much energy. You just become a passenger in your own life.

I wandered off to the men’s section to escape the noise. The store smelled like other people’s laundry detergent and forgotten dreams. I was shuffling past a rack of oversized hoodies and flannel shirts when the room suddenly started spinning.

There it was.

Olive drab. M-65 Field Jacket. The zipper was still busted on the left side, stuck halfway up. The right cuff was frayed—I did that, chewing on the fabric during the monsoon season of ’69 when the rain didn’t stop for three weeks.

Someone had slapped a neon yellow sticker right over the breast pocket: $14.99.

My chest tightened. I reached out, my hand shaking. The moment my fingertips touched that rough canvas, the fluorescent lights of the thrift store vanished.

I wasn’t an old man with a pacemaker anymore. I was nineteen. I was standing on red dirt, the humidity thick enough to drink, feeling invincible because I had a rifle in my hand and three brothers at my back.

I pulled the jacket off the rack. It felt heavy. Heavier than I remembered.

I turned it inside out. My breath hitched.

There, on the inner lining, written in black permanent marker that had faded to a ghostly gray:

MAC. RIZZO. “DOC” MILLER. ARTHUR.

We wrote those names forty-eight hours before the ambush near the border. We passed that marker around, laughing, making jokes about who would get the girls when we got back to the States. We thought we were writing in a yearbook. We didn’t know we were signing a last will and testament.

I was the only one who came home.

And now? Now Mac, Rizzo, and Doc were hanging on a discount rack between a stained polo shirt and a ugly Christmas sweater. Priced cheaper than a DoorDash lunch order.

“Yo, that fit is fire.”

The voice snapped me back to 2024.

I turned around. A kid was standing there. He couldn’t have been more than seventeen. Curly hair falling over his eyes, oversized jeans that dragged on the floor, phone glued to his hand.

He reached out, not asking, just assuming. “You buying that, Pops? ‘Cause if you aren’t, that’s a serious find. Vintage military is trending right now on TikTok.”

I held the jacket tighter. “I… I’m just looking.”

“Let me see it?” The kid stepped closer. He didn’t look mean, just fast. Everything about his generation is fast. Fast scrolling, fast talking, fast fashion.

I handed it to him. My hands felt empty and cold immediately.

He slipped it on. It was too big for his skinny frame, but he popped the collar and turned toward the smudged mirror at the end of the aisle. He pulled out his iPhone, snapped a selfie, and swiped.

“Sick,” he muttered. “Actual authentic wear. Look at that distressing on the cuffs. You can’t fake that.”

“No,” I whispered. “You can’t fake that.”

He shoved his hands into the pockets. He paused. He felt the uneven lining. He took the jacket off and looked inside. He saw the names.

“Whoa,” he said, his thumb tracing the faded ink. “Who are these guys? Previous owners?”

I stepped into the reflection of the mirror with him. The contrast broke my heart. A boy with his whole life ahead of him, and an old man whose life was being packed into cardboard boxes.

“They weren’t owners,” I said, my voice cracking. “They were brothers.”

The kid looked up, phone lowered for the first time.

“We were your age,” I told him. “Mac—the first name there—he wanted to be an architect. He drew sketches in the mud with a stick. Rizzo could fix any engine with a paperclip. And Doc… Doc wrote letters to his mom every single day.”

The store went quiet around us. The hum of the vending machine seemed to stop.

“What happened to them?” the kid asked softly.

“They stayed nineteen forever,” I said. “I’m the only one who got old enough to shop at a thrift store.”

The kid looked down at the jacket. He looked at the $14.99 sticker. Suddenly, the “vintage aesthetic” didn’t seem so cool. It seemed heavy.

He started to take it off, peeling it from his shoulders with a sudden reverence. “Here. Take it. I didn’t know. You should have it, sir. It’s yours.”

I looked at the jacket. If I took it, I’d just hang it in a closet at the nursing home. It would sit in the dark, smelling of mothballs, until I died. Then Sarah would donate it right back to this same rack.

History dies when you lock it away.

“No,” I said.

The kid froze. “What?”

“I’ve carried the weight of that jacket for sixty years,” I said. “It’s heavy. I’m tired, son. Maybe it’s time for it to go on a new adventure.”

“I can’t take this,” he shook his head. “It feels… wrong. Like stealing.”

“I’m okay with you taking it,” I said, locking eyes with him. “On one condition.”

He straightened up, pulling his shoulders back. “Name it.”

“If anyone asks you about that jacket—if anyone compliments your ‘drip’ or asks where you got that ‘vintage look’—you don’t tell them you got it at Goodwill for fifteen bucks.”

My voice stopped shaking. It became the voice of a Sergeant again.

“You show them the names on the inside. You tell them that Mac wanted to build skyscrapers. You tell them Rizzo loved classic cars. You tell them Doc loved his mother.”

I poked a finger at his chest, right over where the heart is.

“You tell them that the freedom to stand here, scrolling on your phone, safe in a warm store… it was paid for by boys who never got to come home. You make them real again. Can you do that?”

The kid didn’t look at his phone. He didn’t look around. He looked at me.

“I promise,” he said. And he meant it.

He walked to the register. I watched my youth, my pain, and my friends walk out the door with a teenager who listens to rap music and probably has never held a rifle.

It hurt. But it healed, too.

Because that jacket isn’t collecting dust anymore. It’s walking down the street. It’s going to concerts. It’s living.

As I walked out to the parking lot to meet my daughter, I passed a bin of old photo frames. $1.99 each. Beautiful black and white wedding photos, pictures of babies laughing, soldiers saluting. Someone once loved those people more than life itself. Now, they are just clearance items.

We all end up on the clearance rack eventually. Our favorite songs become “oldies.” Our clothes become “costumes.” Our stories become “too long” for the younger generation to listen to.

But here is my favor to you:

The next time you see an old man moving slow in the checkout line, or staring a little too long at a coffee cup in a diner… don’t look through him.

We aren’t invisible. We aren’t just obstacles in your busy day.

We are walking libraries. We are holding onto names that no one else remembers.

Say hello. Ask us how we are. Give us ten seconds of your glowing, buzzing, high-speed life.

Because one day, sooner than you think, a kid will be trying on your favorite hoodie and calling it “vintage.” And you will pray to God that someone, somewhere, still believes your name is worth more than $14.99.

If you know the original author of the story of the M-65, please let me know! I was deeply moved by this story.

Picture is Public Domain: I do not own the rights to this pictures.

When I am 64…

Well, that was quick…
When I first heard The Beatles song as a wee 7 year old, “When I’m  64,” I thought 64 was was old, and ancient. In my small 7 year old world, I didn’t have to worry about 64 because that was a long way away.

Then I recall hearing it again in my 20s  and a similar thought, that well, I don’t need to think about 64, because that’s a long ways off, and 30s and 40s…

When I turned 50, I thought, ummm,.WOW, that’s not so old now and in reality, it really is  just around the corner but hey-ho, it’s getting alot closer….and the day arrived yesterday, and it, the number 64, arrived..I’m like, damn, this thing is moving fast, and now for the last 3rd of my life going to cherish even more so the gift of another day…there about 4-5 times from my 20s even up until 59, I didn’t my know if I would make to 64…that was always my benchmark, just make it to 64, and I have…and now life is more precious…but, more determined to make each day count…so, lastly, I am going to definitely eat the cake, and yes drink a glass maybe 2 or 3 of wine.

In the meantime, join me and singing….
…When I get older, losing my hair. Many years from now, Will you still be sending me a valentine, birthday greetings, bottle of wine? If I’d been out till quarter to three, Would you lock the door? Will you still need me, will you still feed me, When I’m sixty four?…” 🎂 🍾🥂

So, each day, go Carpe that Diem of Yours.

…a Labor Day Weekend show: My tribute to what I consider the passing of a legend: Jimmy Buffett

I have been a Parrot-head for over 45 years, beginning in 1977🦜..
If you are a Buffett fan, you will understand below..I did a mesh-up of lyrics from Buffet’s songs he wrote
“…I started looking for my Lost Shaker of salt after I blew out my flip-flop, then stepped on a pop top somewhere in a place called Margaritaville. Afterwards, we were driving down the avenue known as A1A, and stopped to get a Cheeseburger in Paradise.
We had been looking for a Labor Day weekend Show; we took a wrong turn, and found ourselves in One Particular Harbour, while hearing someone playing, Living and dying in 3/4 time. Someone found the last Mango that came from Paris, and the other found some Juicy Fruit and a grapefruit.
Kendall passed out after being drunk for over two weeks and daydreaming about Havana, and I was trying to find door number 3. Then some guy with a pencil thin mustache, and wearing a white sport coat just appeared, wagging his finger telling us, we are the people his parents warned him about. All I could think of was:…looking back in my background trying to figure out how I ever got here, something’s are still a mystery to me, while others are much too clear; I’m just living here in the sunshine staying contented most of the time, listening to Walker, Murphy and Willie sing me their Texas rhymes…got a Caribbean soul, I can barely control, and some Texas hidden in my heart…ahhh, the stories we could tell. You had to be there…”

Well, you found the party Jimmy, and come Monday, it’ll be alright….

The world is a little less brigter, but we go in looking.for that lost Shaker of salt…

Thank you for all the parties you were a part of, and never knew. Rest in Peace.

I don’t ever remember a party where someone would not, inevitably start spinning Jimmy, at some point. He always showed up on our sailboat in the early years of the 80s, via the Boom+Box. He sojourned with me to Florida, and kept me company on the drive from a bad sound system in my old Oldsmobile, but he was there.

I only have a few of the albums left, because the others were in cassette format, which I lost somewhere between Dallas and Florida. Subsequently replaced with CDs, later sole and burned into an invisible cloud of MP3s.

So, here’s to Jimmy! I think today is a good day for a Margarita. 🍸

Vestiges of a Parrot-head LP Collection Photo Credit: A D Pittman/Belle Boudreaux Collection

Port Aransas, 1982
Flagler Beach, FL, 1999
Dog Days in Ormand Beach, FL” 1999
Ormand Beach, FL,.circa 2000
Chesapeake Bay, 2004
Fins Up” Rehoboth Beach,.DE 2019
Memories of a Parrot-head
End of the Highway..A1A
Key West, FL
Thanks for the party, Jimmy.

An Unsuspecting Drive-By of a Hot Dog on a Sleepy Street Late One Night

I have always seen weird things or sightings throughout my life. This case being no different. On the evening of this event it had been a relatively, uneventful, ordinary day in Angie-land, circa 2000. I was living in North Dallas at the time, when the weird thing happened late that evening. And no, no alcohol or mind altering drugs were used. Sober as a saint.

My friend and I had taken the dogs out walking about 11ish that night for their last relief break. When we walking our little route on this quite, sleepy little steet, long before development as it looks today, I heard it before I saw it. The imfamous, Oscar Meyer Jingle, “Oh, I wish I was an Oscar Meyer weiner, that is what I’d truly like to me. Cause if I were an Oscar Mayer Wiener, Everyone would be in love with me...”

My friend and I both stood there with our mouths agape, and about the same time we look at each other and said, “What the hell?” It literally, out of the blue drove by, like just another ordinary day..nothing to see here. Just like it happened on a regular basis.

I still shake my head with this memory. Weird shit has always happened to me..and all you can do is laugh, and I do. This event as in the top 3…just another night in Angieland, way back in the day…stay tuned for more odd events in Angieland…🌭

Palm Sunday

Palm Sunday signals the end of Lent, a 40-day period the Christian holiday that occurs on the Sunday before Easter, and the start of Holy Week.

Palm Sunday, Jesus fulfills the prophesy of Nehemiah where in The Old Testament, he prophesied of Palm Sunday in Zecharaiah 9:9 – “Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion! Shout aloud, O daughter of Jerusalem! Behold, your king is coming to you; righteous and having salvation is he, humble and mounted on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.”

Matthew 21:1-11

As they approached Jerusalem and came to Bethphage on the Mount of Olives, Jesus sent two disciples,  saying to them, “Go to the village ahead of you, and at once you will find a donkey tied there, with her colt by her. Untie them and bring them to me.  If anyone says anything to you, say that the Lord needs them, and he will send them right away.” This took place to fulfill what was spoken through the prophet: “Say to Daughter Zion, ‘See, your king comes to you, gentle and riding on a donkey, and on a colt, the foal of a donkey.’” The disciples went and did as Jesus had instructed them. They brought the donkey and the colt and placed their cloaks on them for Jesus to sit on. A very large crowd spread their cloaks on the road, while others cut branches from the trees and spread them on the road. The crowds that went ahead of him and those that followed shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David!” “Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!” “Hosanna in the highest heaven!” When Jesus entered Jerusalem, the whole city was stirred and asked, “Who is this?” The crowds answered, “This is Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.”

Quoting The Very Reverend Robert Wallis, Dean of Canterbury in his lesson, on this Palm Sunday, “Jesus makes it clear here in Matthew, this is how He will enter Jerusalem. Luke’s gospel as the only gospel that does not reference the prophecy being fulfilled. Perhaps because he speaks to the crowds who knew nothing of the Jewish prophesy about the donkey.

Notice in Matthew as Jesus enters the city, the crowds are singing the same song in Luke, as the Angels in heaven sang to the Shepherds at the birth of the Messiah, in Bethlehem; and making them the first to go and worship in the stable. What do the Angels sing it the birth: they sing, Glory to God in the highest heaven, and upon earth peace and good will.

Here in Matthew, as the disciples approach the city of Jerusalem, with Jesus riding on the donkey shouting, Blessed is the King that comes in the game if the Lord. Peace in heaven and glory in the highest. The crowd is actually singing  the  song of the Angels.

As Jesus enters the city, he weeps where signs of conflict and war are already apparent. One cannot help, but think of the present in the last month, weeks, and days  of the weeping done of a city with carnage and death in their streets and violence all around them in Ukraine.” (Citation: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8dKLmg1wxU)

The palm branch is known to represent goodness, peace and victory, symbolic of the final victory He would soon fulfill over sin and death.

And the 12th Night starts…


‘Christmas. The Wassail Bowl’ by Thomas Hollis after R.W. Buss. The wassail bowl is the centrepiece of this 1851 engraving of merriment and revelry

Epiphany begins tonight at sunset, as the 12 day of Christmas ends. So, what better way to ring in Epiphany than with the Robert Herrick poem, the 12th Night. The sun has just set, so lets get the cake ready…

The following pen was written by Robert Herrick, a clergyman of the Church of England. After England’s civil war, Herrick was displaced or rather kicked out of his living quarters because the worship of the Church of England; and the customs of the country-side, including the celebration of Twelfth Night had been abolished because of the Civil War. Any celebrations therein, were made criminal. Inasmuch, because shops were not allowed to open, riots ensued, referred to as The Plum Pudding riots.

Herrick lived until 1674. He was restored to his ministry in 1660. Knowing, the return of King Charles II and things would be restored, he penned the celebratory poem, Twelfth Night.

TWELFTH NIGHT : OR, KING AND QUEEN.
by Robert Herrick NOW, now the mirth comes With the cake full of plums,

Where bean’s the king of the sport here ;
Beside we must know,
The pea also
Must revel, as queen, in the court here. Begin then to choose, This night as ye use,

Who shall for the present delight here,
Be a king by the lot,
And who shall not
Be Twelfth-day queen for the night here. Which known, let us make Joy-sops with the cake ;

And let not a man then be seen here,
Who unurg’d will not drink
To the base from the brink
A health to the king and queen here. Next crown a bowl full With gentle lamb's wool :

Add sugar, nutmeg, and ginger,
With store of ale too ;
And thus ye must do
To make the wassail a swinger. Give then to the king And queen wassailing :

And though with ale ye be whet here,
Yet part from hence
As free from offence
As when ye innocent met here.

*Wassailing historically occurred on the twelfth and final night of Christmas. Wassailing is a Twelfth Night tradition that has been practiced in Britain for centuries. It has its roots in a pagan custom of visiting orchards to sing to the trees and spirits in the hope of ensuring a good harvest the following season.

(*Source: http://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/features/ritual-and-revelry-the-story)

Picture by A.D. Pittman, 2021

Just one of those kind of days…

It was one of those kind of days, where everything I touched something happened. I had just gotten off work, and was already mentally exhausted from the day. So, on way home, I stopped by convenience store to get some water. Pulled in the parking lot, not paying attention, get out of the car, and hurriedly walking to the door. I had worn a dark pantsuit that day suit, and still was wearing dark sunglasses when I got out. In the meantime, I did notice as I was in a hurry for not particular reason other than to get home, a Concrete truck by where I had parked. There were no cones in front of store, so go in. I opened the door and walked right in, and then felt the strangest sensation: I took a step and sank, then another step and sank..not realizing wet cement and was standing in it covering my ankles. I uttered Oh shit, as my sunglasses fly off whilst attempting to maintain my balance. I hear a collective gasp..clerk says you are not supposed to come in that door, as I am ankle deep in wet cement. All I could say was “really,” where are the cones?

I said, “Uh, do you have some paper towels? “Oh yes ma’am, and made no attempt to hand me amy. I replied, tersely, “Well, may I have some? Grabbed them, then stepped out, then back and landed left foot in the other side of the newly poured, not cordoned off cement. Truly, something out of a comedy routine. Finally, I manage to get outside with said paper towels look at the construction guy who just finished, and said, “I just ruined your work.” He is now cussing, and I am.

I now laugh at the mental pic..yes, another day in the life of Angie..its ok to laugh, I am..yes, shoes are ruined. Just a other day in Angieland.


True story on this day in 2014.

Pearl of Wisdom, a/k/a, “Angieism” for the day: 15 September 2021

Woke up singing, “this little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine, this little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine, let it shine, let it shine, let it shine…”

You are a light of the world, let your light shine brightly today, because it won’t be back.
~Angieism September 15, 2013

The Door

I visited this church in Alexandria, VA, a few years back when I first returned to DC from Minneapolis. It was around this same time of year. It was a summer schedule unbeknownst to me at the time, and was locked when I got there. I knocked on the solid wood, heavy door, waiting for it to be opened. As I stood at the door, the verse, ” Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me,” came to my mind.
Right before someone opened it and unlocked it, I pondered that and recalled another time in 1999, after a 15 year hiatus of not attending church. As I sat in the pew that day I showed up after 15 years, with the sunlight reflecting off the stained glass window, and as Communion began, I heard that still small voice say, “Come unto me and I will come unto you.” That was when I began a new walk with Christ and my life has never been the same. I was reminded of this memory, this morning about that door and me standing there knocking on it for someone to open it, and remembered and reflected.

Go in Peace.